IT'S A BIG FAT LIE IF YOU SAID YOU NEVER BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP

IT’S A BIG FAT LIE IF YOU SAID YOU NEVER BEEN IN RELATIONSHIP.

 
A relationship can be LOVE relationship, or family, friends, schoolmate and so on. It is part of our life to have this and go through with it. A relationship can have happiness, sadness, pain, and other sort of feeling you can feel. Nobody in the world would love to be in  a relationship that only have negative feeling like sad, pain, unloved, unwanted and others. A perfect relationship that only has love, joy and happiness, it’s not healthy either. It is a FAKE relationship when there no argument or a bit sadness or angry throughout the relationship.

When a relationship DON’T have any negative or bad feeling, mean the other person DON’T really care or just faking it. It's a FAKE relationship. When it too much of negative feeling, it’s also bad for the relationship. A relationship has to be balance between negative and positive feeling; it just like Yin and Yang. 

 I never want a perfect relationship but so far my relationships are fine. I do argue with my mother, lecturer, friends or boyfriend and most of the things that we argue are something that they don’t allow me to do or they don’t like my action. It shows me that they CARE me and LOVE me. It’s hard to handle all the relationship at once, but I rather be in reality than stuck in fairytale. BECAUSE in reality is much more fun and thrilling than fairytale. 

Imagine if a relationship is like a fairytale story in Disney world, it would be boring because it so predictable. Having a healthy relationship, it’s give the surprise element and thrilling moment. Example, your mother never allows you to go out late night, but you still go. The experience you sneaky outside, the thrilling feeling from not getting caught by any of your parent or someone you know. It’s fun. When you get caught, you know it’s for your own good and safety. In additional, you know they care about you. 

So, what you prefer?