A relationship can either lead to a BREAK UP or a marriage. Plus, you’ll never know if the person you dating with would either end up marrying you or breaking up with you.
Is it really not worth it to pour out all the emotions, times and efforts toward only one person in the whole world? Isn’t it risky? Emotions are not something we can control and it’s quite hard to take control of it.
Yesterday, someone told me, it’s not worth it to waste all of it toward only ONE person. We don’t have to pour out all the emotions, times, energy and so on just for one person because they would just end up hurting us or make us lost our opportunities with others. It is better not having a relationship.
Some people said, if we do not going through a relationship then how would we know what kind of person we are with together or what feeling we have or are they the person we want to spend the rest of our life if we are getting married?
I been with a guy for more than 3 years, I love him very much. I know I spend lots of times, efforts and pay lots of ATTENTION to him. What could I have told my friend? There nothing I can say that would change their mind and everyone has their own opinions.
To me, it’s never about whether it’s worth it or not; it’s never about the times or efforts that been taken. It’s all about being part of someone life, being MEANINGFUL to someone else and moment that shared together. The life experience and good memories that shared with someone would really open up our mind and taught us some useful lessons in the future.
I would never know if I would marry him or break up with him in the FUTURE, but what I know is that I would always be part of his life and he would always be part of my life. I know in the future I would think back all the memories and the moments that I been gone through. I would smile to the good times that I had. It’s just part of life that all of us should go through.
Life is too short to be depressing with; cherish and enjoy your life.
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